[theqoo] *TRIGGER WARNING* TELEGRAM CONTROVERSY DUMP

bypannchoa August 26, 2024
[theqoo] THE KOREAN TWEET THAT IS MAKING A STIR OVERSEAS RIGHT NOW 





There was a time when I wanted to d** because my younger brother, who was one year younger than me, because of his bullsh*t. Both he and I were in middle school.
We were really, really close, to the point that others envied us. The first time, I was so surprised and didn't know what to do, so I pretended not to know. I really regret that. It was a weekend afternoon while I was napping, and both my parents were asleep, but my younger brother touched me and took a picture of it, and I woke up and caught him. 

I was so shocked at that moment. I couldn't think of anything... He was trying to act like he was surprised too, saying 'Oh, sorry' and all that, but I was so embarrassed that I couldn't even stand him being in front of me, so I kicked him out. I had all sorts of thoughts:
Where could he have posted it?
How many times has this happened?
Who did he send it to?
Where did he sell it?
Did he use it for masturbation?
How has he been viewing me normally?

I went into a panic, my hands and feet were shaking, and I couldn’t even cry or breathe properly. I never thought my brother would do something like this, especially not my brother.

My parents went out for a bit, and after about two hours, I thought something was wrong and sent a message to my mom. I asked her not to tell my dad because he really cares about me, and I was so embarrassed. About an hour later, my brother left the house. When my mom came home and asked about it, she said that Dad had called for my brother. So, my concerns were completely ignoredㅋㅋ

Did they say something like 'Your brother needs to talk to Dad'? I was really anxious, worried that Dad might end up hitting him or something serious like that. 

But I think it was all just in my head. They came back laughing and chatting like nothing happened. Ugh, at that moment, I really felt like I wanted to die. Damn, it felt like such a nightmare.

So, my family is usually pretty close and gets along well. We’re financially comfortable and have a good time together. But that evening, my mom had been drinking and ended up hitting my brother a few times. What really got to me was that I heard everything, and then my mom said, “You’re part of the problem too. Who wears such short pajamas at home? I’ve never dealt with something like this before, so I don’t know what to do.”

My pajamas back then were just these short-sleeve, short-pants ones that were pretty trendy at the time. Yeah, I guess you could say it was all my fault. I was pretty slim and my chest was a C cup, so it wasn’t exactly small. 
But does that really mean it’s okay for something like this to happen?

Was it really my fault?

I was just wearing normal pajamas, in my own home, and went to sleep comfortably.

Does that mean it’s my fault? After that day, I couldn’t really live a normal life for about a year.

Even when I was in class at school, or eating a meal, or even at home, and especially when I was showering, those moments, feelings, and sensations were so vivid, and I just wanted to cut myself out of my own body.

My family? They all seemed to be doing just fine. It was only me who felt like a complete mess, while everyone else acted as if nothing had happened. It felt like they were too afraid to even talk about it.

Later, I had to go on a family trip that was already planned. It was less than a week after the incident, and since it was a trip with my grandparents, I couldn’t say no to my mom’s request.

But that wasn’t the end. Throughout the trip, my parents kept trying to get me and my brother to make up, and they looked like they were having a great time, laughing and enjoying themselves.

Is this what you call making up? It felt like I was the one who had to forgive everything.

In the end, I reached out to my brother first and we became close again, like nothing ever happened. Everyone around us was praising him, saying things like, "He's such a great brother. You’re so lucky to have him." 

Seriously? I once brought up the whole situation in front of the family again. My mom said, "I didn’t realize how far it went. I’m sorry." (But since this was during an argument, it didn’t feel like a genuine apology.) 

My dad was like, "How long are you going to keep talking about this? Are you going to bring it up every time you’re in a tough spot?"  This was the first time I had mentioned it to my dad since the incident, but he acted like I talk about it every day.

I’m still struggling with it. Even after years, it’s not something I can just forget. What is he trying to do?

My dad called my brother and me ‘f*cking as***les,’ and then he couldn't control his own anger and took it out on us.

That day, my parents ended up apologizing to me.

That was about 2 years ago. I’m not sure about other cases, but honestly, I don’t know. If you talk to your parents about s***al ab*se within the family and end up in a situation like mine, what I want to say is that no matter what the person who did wrong says, you’ll never find comfort within yourself. Even if they beg for forgiveness, it really doesn’t feel like real forgiveness.

If you’re thinking about reporting it to the police… well, I’m not sure. If your parents are covering up for the criminal and the offender is a minor, the outcome might not be much. Honestly, I even thought that I should've just ended it back then.

I thought that if I had ended things back then, maybe my family would have finally felt some guilt and blamed my brother more. But, honestly, saying this feels really bad, especially since my family views the whole thing as my fault and even turns their back on me. I just can’t think of a clear solution. The only thing I can do is try to get through it myself.

I still think about that time sometimes. But, honestly, I’m kind of dumb. I still get along with my brother. 

Maybe he’s the one who wants to avoid thinking about it the most.

I’m no expert, and even though I’ve experienced family s**ual a***se from my brother, I still don’t know how to truly comfort myself or find a real solution.

Honestly, I wonder if there's even a real solutionㅋㅋ But anyway, my family and I are just living like everything’s normal from the outside. I’m still fooling myself with the word "family." And I’m still a minor, so I can’t really cut ties with them ㅠㅠ



Cr. Juni


"This was the pajamas I was wearing...
(How is this? Provocative?)
I threw them away that day it happened but they look almost identical"

original post: here

1. I will pray that the victim will be able to find peace in the future sometime 

2. This must've been agonizing for her ㅠㅠㅠ The comments are also shocking 

3. I was also humiliated that way by my father at 8y'o 

4. My mom told me to lock the door when I stayed over at my cousins' house just in caseㅋㅋ  This country really deserves to go to hell, damn it..

5. You realize that it's actually rarer in our country to have women who have never experienced any SA when they were minors.. This country is just doomed

6. In such cases, it’s difficult to cut ties and get help when you're a minor, and you end up living in the same space as the perpetrator until you become an adult. Only then can you find a way to be independent on your own. This is a sign that this country is failing; there should be legal and institutional support to help people receive assistance and be separated from the perpetrator.

7. When I was young, my dad also put his hand under my pajamas and touched my chest while pretending to be asleep, and since then, just looking at his face disgusts me, and he has even touched me and pinch me while pretending to be exercising... I'm in pain and I'm so fed up I just want to k*** myself. It's a sad victim's life. I sympathized so much with this that I wanted to add just one word...

8. The comments here are shocking to read, the bast*rds doing these kinds of things need to be beaten to d**th

9. I also had a similar experience when I was young with my older brother. I just pretended to be asleep and let it go... I buried it in my memory and lived with it, but it suddenly came to mind. This is why I dislike my brother

10. My cousins ​​took my clothes off when I was sleeping ㅋㅋ  After I became an adult, I got a job working during holidays so I wouldn't have to go to my relatives' house ㅋ the pay was low, but I still didn't want to go to holidays, so I just stayed there ㅋㅋ


[theqoo] PERCENTAGE OF WOMEN VICTIMS OF DF P**N: KOREA 53% - JAPAN 10% - CHINA 3%

Analysis of 95,820 DF videos, 85 dedicated channels across online platforms, and over 100 websites connected to the DF ecosystem.

Korea ranked first with 53%
Japan ranked 3rd with 10%
China ranked 5th with 3%

Among the three Northeast Asian countries, Korea stands alone.







original post: here

1. The worst country

2. Korean men, you guys are so cool~

3. Crazy these trash f*ckers are disgusting 

4. Seriously I don't know where we started going wrong 

5. I want them all d**d ^^

6. No but since when did we become a country with such abnormal s** urges? Because theirs is so small?

7. Impressive f*ck 

8. "Native Korean"

9. The fact that we're way ahead of Japan is crazyㅋㅋㅋ

10. F*ck I'm not even surprised


[theqoo] ONLY FEMALE STUDENTS WHOSE SCHOOL WAS CAUGHT IN A DF CONTROVERSY WERE CALLED IN THE AUDITORIUM 


"It is said that only the female students from the school where the DF was discovered were called to the auditorium and told to be careful. Meanwhile boys went off to play soccer.

What on earth should women be careful about? Don't go out late at night, don't wear short clothes, don't drink too much, don't go to clubs, wear underpants even in the middle of summer, etc. Even if you are careful and cautious, you find people who are still and make DF with their photos. How on earth should you be more careful? Nowadays, daughters in this country can’t even use social media."

original post: here

1. This is legendary ㅋㅋ

2. 


3. That's not fabricated but real? How do I submit a civil complaint about it?

4. Why are they telling victims to be cautious 

5. Reveal the faces of the perpetrators

6. They've lost it 

7. They have no intention to educate

8. Should've called in the boys and scolded them sigh 

9. I'm filing a civil complaint 

10. Crazy which school is this? 



[theqoo] THIS IS HOW JTBC'S CHIEF REACTED TO THE TELEGRAM CONTROVERSY WHEN IT WAS REPORTED 


JTBC: 
- I'm sorry, but on which community site is this incident being reported to the incident control team? The same post is being copied and pasted repeatedly. This is causing significant disruptions to our work. It’s enough if just one or two people report it; please do not have dozens of people report it all at once. 

OP: 
- Pardon me? Maybe the incident is serious, so it’s been reported a lot. And how am I supposed to know if dozens of people reported it all at once?

JTBC:
- Dozens of people, including yourself, are copying and pasting the same content and sending it. This is why we cannot consider it as personal reports from our perspective.


Since we have received many reports, we take this as a serious matter (X)

Although it is a case where there were as many as 220,000 perpetrators, it is really annoying to have dozens of people reporting, which is a very small number compared to that, so the informant is admonished (O)

original post: here

1. So he's one of the 220,000 people in the Katalk room 

2. JTBC's level ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

3. No but why are they pissed at the informant? 

4. I bet JTBC will release an apology blaming it on a woman intern and make her apologize for them..ㅋ This is obvius 

5. ?? Why are they pissed at the fact that people are copy pasting the complaints?

6. This is insane ㅋㅋ

7. ㅋㅋㅋㅌ They're in it 

8. They felt attacked ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

9. One of the 220,000

10. Take a screenshot of this and expose them to other media outlets


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