[theqoo] THIS IS BULLYING VS IT'S NOT

A is a first-year middle school student who recently entered school.

A went around with 6 new people, but one day, the 6 people started strangely avoiding him.

When A asked his friends the reason, they hesitated and then said

“I’m sorry, but it’s not that I don’t like you, I just think we’re not compatible.”

Afterwards, his friends did not mick A but they started avoiding A outright, and A ended up eating lunch alone and being alone during recess.

It was so painful to eat lunch alone.

He heard whispering sounds like "I guess he doesn't have any friends..."

He tried making other friends, but they were all already close to each other, so there seemed to be no room for A joining in....

And if he was able to join another group, they were just pretending to be friends. A was truly left alone.

Is A being bullied?

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1. If that's not bullying, what is it?

2. I'm getting goosebumps from people thinking this is not bullying

3. I work in a school and this is ambiguous...I wouldn't call this bullying... Once A changes grade, I hope he'll be able to make new friends ㅠ...ㅜㅜ Anyways, the kid is definitely having a hard time... My heart hurts for him

4. Bullying isn't the same thing as school violence

5. That's bullying, it just goes unnoticed.

Even teachers are secretly leery when they see things like that, so they say there’s nothing you can do about it. In the end, after experiencing that kind of bullying for 3 years in elementary school and 3 years in middle school, I became afraid of going to high school, so I dropped out and took the qualification exam.

The biggest reason was that I went to the same school as the person who bullied me.

If I stayed there, I wouldn't be able to escape.

Because of that, I ended up living as a hikikomori.

Even though I'm a 3n(?), I still get out of breath whenever I see kids in school uniform.

When I have a nightmare, I dream of school

6. It's bullying.. In a group of 6, if someone stops playing with you, they wouldn't make everyone stop playing with you, the fact that all of them left and nobody wanted to play with him anymore means that they were targeting him

7. I feel like if they're incompatible, it can't be helped, but after reading the comments, it's true that it's hard for all 6 people to not be compatible with him, there must be some mastermind

8. I've experienced this in the past and even I don't know whether I can call this bullying or not. Even when I get stressed from other groups staring at me

9. How is this not bullying? Wow the society really changed

10. If this isn't bullying, what is considered bullying?

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