I have a twin brother and we have always been VERY close. He's my best friend and the only person I actually care about, our parents are very busy so we hardly see them. Without their presence, we both ended up leaning on each other a lot.When we're together we always walk arm in arm, most of our friends says we're cute, but some time ago a friend of mine (A), said no boy would get close to me since my brother and I were always clinging to each other. I wasn't interested in anyone, so it didn't matter to me, however, this (A) "jokingly" said that I was being selfish because my brother is cute and would definitely have a girlfriend if I didn't cling to him all the time, she even hinted that she finds our relationship "weird". Even though it was a "joke" I got upset and uncomfortable with her insinuations.
This probably bothered me more because it was not the first time I heard something like this, my other friend said once that my relationship with my brother is a bit weird.
I mentioned what (A) said to him and he just laughed and said that my friend was saying bullshit and that she must be jealous, I agreed to him and after a while I forgot about it.
But two months ago, a boy who is a close friend of my friend (B), said he was interested in getting to know me better, (B) told me this in front of my brother when we were leaving school. She asked if she could give him my number and I agreed somewhat reluctantly. My brother didn't said much, he just listened to our conversation, but when we got home he said to send a message to (B) and tell her that I changed my mind or when the boy sent a message I should reject him, I asked him why and he just said that I can't date. I got upset for the way he said that, he was always been a little possessive but I didn't expect him order me like that.
I'm not as interested in having a relationship as my friends, but I was curious to know what it's like to have a boyfriend. We argued because he wanted to boss me around, he said he would feel lonely if I got a boyfriend and asked me if I wouldn't feel the same way if he got a girlfriend, as we've always been very close to each other, it would be difficult for me to adjust to someone else stealing all his attention, so the answer was obvious and, in the end, I gave in to him.
Recently I got closer to a schoolmate who has friends in common with me, for some reason my brother doesn't like this friendship, he always finds something to complain about and is rude to my friend. Because of this we argued again, I wanted to know why he was acting so weird, but it made him very angry and he didn't speak to me for one week after our argument. Yesterday he deleted several drawings from his Twitter account and posted a drawing of a girl with the caption saying it was a drawing of his girlfriend, I was confused and angry because he was ignoring me, he deleted drawings he had made of me and posted a drawing of a supposed girlfriend. The days he ignored me I even cried and begged him to talk to me, after which he posted mocking me about how "cute" I am while crying.
I think this shouldn't be happening, usually my brother is so kind to me, we've never gone this long without talking. I'm so confused, what should I do?
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