[marriage & in-laws] WHY ARE WE SO HARSH TOWARDS PEOPLE WHO HANG OUT BY THEMSELVES?


Just look at the school days, the kid who was eating their lunch alone, the kid who was always hanging by themselves.
You just couldn't help but torment them or ostracize them right?
But what did the outsider who's just hanging out by themselves even do to other people?

And the poeple who usually hang out alone are usually those who have experienced a lot of problems so they ended up alone. 
Isn't this the majority of them? I'm just trying to speak rationally here

post response:
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original post: here

1. [+132, -3]
It's because these people are just jjinddas who will never stand a day alone by themselves (t/n: jjinddas = losers) 

2. [+94, -1]
Because the more you're miserable, the more you'll try to raise the little self-esteem you have by putting down others

3. [+73, -1]
I feel like it goes with the assumption that extroverted = good and introverted = bad. But the situation has improved a lot though 

4. [+68, -3]
It's because humans are animals and it's the survival of the fittest. The animals that hang out in groups will find it easier to attack than the animals who hangs out alone. This is why they look like easy prey to others 

5. [+59, -1]
I have a lot of friends, but I also enjoy hanging out by myself. I don't really care about what other people think but when I read OP's post, I went "Ah... Isn't this just how Korean culture has always been?ㅎ" Isn't it good as long as I'm fine with it? 


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