[instiz] AS A POPULAR GUY, THIS IS THE TYPE OF GIRL I'D NEVER DATE

1. A girl who has a "Some" with many people or someone with too many people of opposite sex around her

I don't think I need to explain this one

2. Girls who have low self-esteem and who are extremely sensitive

Usually, these people tend to be emotional.

If they're not the avoidant types, they'll be unable to control their own emotions and act out on others

However, the characteristic of such people is that they tend to not show this side of them to the people they want to make a good impression on outside, so they'll only show how sensitive they are to the people close to them because they don't need to consistently try to look good

On the contrary, I rather have someone who isn't as sensitive and conscious so they will stay objective and fair with everyone around them and I tend to understand these people better

Instead, you should apply the same standards to your family, friends, superiors, subordinates, and everyone else.

Anyways, I'm just speaking based on experience

So I don't only date based on appearance

I've done it in the past, but now I'm skipping on them

I've seen a lot of pretty women still date men not based on their popularity

I feel like personality is way more important than looks

And values are important too

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1. Girls are the same, we wouldn't date men like that

2. For real, #2 ... I feel like if your emotions lead your actions, you'll never be mature

3. This is just global standards regardless of you being a woman or a man. Especially #2

4. I seriously can't meet sensitive people, they tire me out