[instiz] HONESTLY ISN'T THIS THE MAIN REASON WHY WOMEN DON'T WANT KIDS!?

They saw how much their moms suffered while giving birth to themselves...

I seriously won't be able to do it, I don't even think Superman is able to go through what my mom went though. Just how did my mom do it?

This makes me realize that men in their 40-50s have it so much easier

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1. I don't know if men in their 40-50s have it easier, but my mom really had a hard time raising me... However I was still able to receive so much love that I want to give this same kind of love back to my kids

2. Our dad also had it hardㅜ so I wouldn't say that men in their 40-50s have it easy. I feel like the world we live in is becoming harder and harder, and I also think that I can't enjoy the things I'm enjoying now if I had a kid. I do feel sorry but I'd feel sorry for my kids if I had one too

3. I would feel like it's a waste for my body so I don't want to be pregnant

4. There's that too, but I don't want to ruin my body. And I'm so busy taking care of this and that that I can't even fathom sacrificing any of the things I'm doing. I'd have to give up on too many things

5. ㅠㅠ I don't think I can live the same life my mom lived. I don't understand how she was able to sacrifice so much to live. I'm so grateful yet so sorry

6. I'm already too busy taking care of myself that I really don't think I'll ever be able to be pregnantㅎ

7. I never thought of being pregnant in my life, I treasure myself too much

8. I feel like it'll be way too painful. Having a kid means ruining your body and you also have to abandon your dreams to raise your kid. I would hate to do this. I want to live the life I want, I don't want to live for my kid

9. Nowadays I feel like it'll be even harder to have a kidㅋㅋ My dad wasn't super patriarchal, yet I learned so much about it...

10. Me too I don't want to live like my mom. Among my close acquaintances, there are barely anyone who has a truly harmonious household. I hope that if my mom had this strength in her, she could've lived by herself just well..ㅎ

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